of mice and men gang aft agley,” according to Scottish poet Robert Burns. John Steinbeck gave us the more contemporary finish, “..often go awry.” Whatever. Whoever. My best laid plans most definitely went awry.Â
The best laid plan was to whip up a tote bag for my darling daughter-in-law’s birthday, today. She seldom asks for anything but about a month ago mentioned that if anyone asked for birthday suggestions, she would really like a good size tote bag, personalized with some embroidery. I was so excited to think I could finally do something special for my special friend, beloved daughter-in-law and respected homeschool co-teacher.
Before surgery I selected and edited all the designs, laid out the bag and was ready to go. Certainly with 3 full days between arriving home and her birthday, I could complete this project. And Monday or Tuesday I would photograph it to post to this blog.
As it turned out, I felt so good, so robust, so strong when I arrived home Saturday morning that I decided to deadhead 20 of my Knockout rose bushes and weed those beds. The other 20 roses, I thought, could wait until Sunday. I had some restraint. But while I was at it, I might as well start on the mountain of laundry, all 7 loads which I managed to wash, dry, fold and put away. The house needed a little tidying up, Bob’s shirts needed ironing and my newly transplanted passion vine, ginger lily, plumbago, oak leaf hydrangea and others did need some watering. And so I did.
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