“The best laid plans…..

of mice and men gang aft agley,” according to Scottish poet Robert Burns.  John Steinbeck gave us the more contemporary finish, “..often go awry.”  Whatever.  Whoever.  My best laid plans most definitely went awry. 

The best laid plan was to whip up a tote bag for my darling daughter-in-law’s birthday, today.  She seldom asks for anything but about a month ago mentioned that if anyone asked for birthday suggestions, she would really like a good size tote bag, personalized with some embroidery.  I was so excited to think I could finally do something special for my special friend, beloved daughter-in-law and respected homeschool co-teacher.

Before surgery I selected and edited all the designs, laid out the bag and was ready to go.  Certainly with 3 full days between arriving home and her birthday, I could complete this project.  And Monday or Tuesday I would photograph it to post to this  blog.

As it turned out, I felt so good, so robust, so strong when I arrived home Saturday morning that I decided to deadhead 20 of my Knockout rose bushes and weed those beds.  The other 20 roses, I thought, could wait until Sunday.  I had some restraint.  But while I was at it, I might as well start on the mountain of laundry, all 7 loads which I managed to wash, dry, fold and put away.  The house needed a little tidying up, Bob’s shirts needed ironing and my newly transplanted passion vine, ginger lily, plumbago, oak leaf hydrangea and others did need some watering.  And so I did.

Big mistake. Continue reading

Classic Baby Kimono

Cotton flannel kimono is cut from Sarah Howard Stone’s pattern.

Baby kimonos have been around forever but have been eclipsed in popularity by the one-piece sleeper.  But when Laurel was born, those knit sleepers were always second choice.  This kimono was in use every night that it was laundered and available.

 The night time routine was for her father to get up, change her diaper, and then carry his baby girl to her mother to be nursed.  After one frustrating night spent trying to line up the snaps on the sleeper, my son discovered the 2-tie kimono and certified it as daddy-friendly baby nightwear.

Feather stitch is worked with floche.

This kimono and Lezette Thomason’s Bunny’s Knit Nightie (Children’s Corner patterns) were his bedtime garments of choice for Laurel.  Continue reading

Therapy Thoughts~Going Home

Susan, my miracle worker therapist, waving goodbye.

After 3 days in the hospital and 14 days in rehab, I am finally going home.  I can’t wait.

But it’s not so much that I’m eager to leave this place as I am simply eager to go home.  Rehab has been a very positive, educational and meaningful experience.  I’ll come away from this place with more than a good knee.

This Latin charmer waxed eloquently on the joys of American citizenship and the hardship of spending most of his life in Cuba.

 

I’ve met incredible working women, seen patients with more challenges and courage than I hope to ever have need of, and watched residents in the final chapters of their lives, facing the end with a wide array of grace.  They have enriched my life and given me a new appreciation for the blessings God has showered upon me.  Here are a few of their stories. Continue reading

Blue Flowers Daygown

Few projects are as satisfying as a baby daygown.  Even lavished with time consuming details and handwork, they are relatively quick.  You can use fine fabrics and short lengths of special trims from your stash that might be too small or too expensive for a larger garment.  And you can use things you have put away for something special and not feel guilty, because daygowns are special.

This smocked daygown was made for Laurel, before her May birth. The angel wing sleeve seemed to be appropriate for the summer heat that would blanket her infancy. The fabric is easy care Imperial batiste, chosen because of the non-stop demands on a new mother’s time and the fact that my daughter-in-law hates to iron.

The trim is a Swiss embroidery from Capitol Imports that I had put away many years ago.  The blue floral insertion was used on the front opening and the matching edge finishes the angel sleeve.

The edge is 1″ wide, too wide, I decided, to be joined to either side of the insertion down the front.  It seemed as if  that much width and that many blue flowers it would just overwhelm the smocking and the dress and the baby.  Continue reading

Therapy Thoughts–Sereni~Tea

day #14 post op

serenity: the state of calmness or peace; the absence of trouble or disturbance

I am putting a lot of effort into thinking positive thoughts.  Though I have missed the comfort and joys of home and family—not to mention Laurel’s dance recital and today’s swim meet, but I’ll get over that, someday– I’ve just realized that since coming to rehab I have experienced  an unrecognized and heretofor unappreciated serenity. Who expects that in rehab?  And yet, it is as real as the 23 staples that hold my incision together.

Laurel lining up for her first event

My bad knee has been replaced with a good one, my therapist is making it work, the nurses monitor all aspects of my health, the CNA’s are at my beck and call, my family and friends  have smothered me with love, visits, calls, cards, flowers and prayers.   How could I not be serene?

This realization came to me today. Having just completed my third and last therapy session of the day, I  stretched out on my hospital bed to relax for a few moments.   The lavender booklet, next to the roses in the photo, caught my eye so I perused the contents.  It was sent to me by my dearly loved Aunt Rheeta, who lives in Indiana.

The presentation is very feminine, which is to be expected with the title Women and God, Moments of Grace, 25 Devotions.  It opens with some detailed advice on making a good pot of tea and a recipe for vanilla scones, then begins the devotions, each built on a “tea/ty” concept such as beauty (beau-tea), identity, heredity, modesty, creativity, productivity…you get the picture.  Continue reading

Antique Pink Daygown

notice misplacement of bottom button

This sweet little pale pink daygown carries a Lilliputian label that simply says, “Made in the Philippines.” It is so tiny that it can be read only by eyes younger than 40 or with reading glasses. The label size is in perfect proportion to the wee dress which has so many intricate details.

single layer collar with cutwork edge and very fine embroidery

Made of pink cotton batiste and constructed with tiny 1/8″ French seams, the entire garment is hand stitched.

The cutwork edge and tiny, fine embroidery on the collar and dress front showcase the expertise —and good eye sight–of the dressmaker.

 

Three sections of appliqué cord on either side of the front opening make the perfect finishing touch to the embroidery. Learning appliqué cord has been on my to-do list for several years. The cuffs are scalloped with a simple buttonhole stitch. Continue reading

Therapy Thoughts–A Very Good Day

day #12 post op

Just next door to the facility, these magnolias are all in bloom, as well as a few lingering wild pink phlox.

This was a really good day in rehab.  First thing this morning, Bob checked me out of the facility to take me to the orthopod.  It is less than two  miles to the doctor’s office, with the hospital in between the two locations.  But it is mostly rural, the street lined with magnolias and orange groves–a pretty drive. 

I wore my green therapy shirt, posted yesterday, and I was amazed at that everyone from the receptionist to the X-ray tech to the doctor himself noticed not only the shirt but the incision on the knee in the design!  It made everyone smile, including me. The doctor checked the X-rays, declared my knee  hunky dory and was out of there in a flash. 

We decided that since the appointment was so fast,  I wouldn’t be missed for some time.  So we a run for it and dashed home, a mere 8 miles.  I loved on Rastus, who was just beside himself, and Hannah, whose smug attitude made it clear to Rastus that my arrival was no big deal as she sees me alllll the time.  Continue reading

Therapy Outfit #2

 

NOTE:  This was written prior to surgery.

As I mentioned in an earlier post, I will be going to rehab after my knee replacement surgery. At this facility, ortho patients are required to wear shorts for all therapy sessions. SHORTS!!! Good grief! I haven’t worn shorts in public, except for yard work, since 1986.   Certainly, something would be needed to draw the eye up from the legs.

Embroidery to the rescue! Several designs from Loralie’s Have A Fit collection work well on the shirts I have embroidered to wear with the mandated shorts.

“The incision was my own little touch. Loralie is not into scars.

This design is called Torture, precisely what I will be groaning as Susan, my therapist, pushes me to my limits. She and her family were our back door neighbors when she was growing up. Now she is the recognized as the best therapist in the rehab business.  When I’m not moaning, we will be having a good time chatting about the neighborhood. Continue reading

Therapy Thoughts–Things I Miss

day #10 post op

I’ve been away from home now for 10 days and am getting a little homesick. Still, I had another good day in rehab. My day began, as usual, with a visit over breakfast with my dear, dear husband, Bob.  I really miss him.

Each day he brings Hannah, our 90 lb. German Shepherd/Great Pyrenees mix.  With her 4-5″ long coat and distinctive markings, she looks  a lot like a wolf.   Continue reading

Matching Mismatches

 

Laurel in her matching mismatched outfit.

Laurel in her matching mismatched outfit.

Some time ago, there was an article in Sew Beautiful magazine that caught my attention. After buying children’s separates from the clearance rack, the author coordinated them with other separates by using embroidery or appliqué designs. The little outfits looked like matched sets from an upscale department store.

I couldn’t help but think of on-line dating services, like Harmony or Match.com. Previously unknown individuals meet up and match up and sometimes even marry up. Ask me how I know—but  then again, I took an oath of secrecy so never mind.  Don’t bother. Continue reading