Therapy Thoughts: Unresolved Feelings

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You have a lot of time to think in rehab.  Certainly, you are busy enough with all the therapy and nurse visits, etc.  But a lot of time is spent resting, trying to think about anything other than the aching  knee.  Sewing related topics, of course, are a common diversion.

Back in the closets of my mind a memory hangs, one that sometimes falls off its hook, requiring my attention.   A reader’s recent comment brought this particular recollection to the forefront of my mind.  In response to the post, Spring is Sprung, Karen said,  “I, too, used to buy smocked dresses at Dillard’s and Strasburg when they were on sale. That way my sweetie was dressed in sweet traditional things that I wasn’t concerned about her ruining. Although, I always felt that the beautiful things I made her were meant to be worn by her. There were some that were tossed or given away to Goodwill but not many. Most survived!”

That comment spurred this memory, more than 25 years old, of an anonymous child wearing one of Rebecca’s dresses.  It left me with feelings that I have been unable to accurately identify, express  or understand, even to this day.  Allow me to give you some background so you might see this from my perspective.  Continue reading

Fishing Bag

Every grandparent strives to keep things even with the grandchildren but Judy Day manages it better than most.

Her first grandchild, Jackson, was being showered with smocked bubbles and Jon-Jon’s and button-ons when along came his sister, Courtney.  Just three months later, second  baby  girl  came into the family picture,  cousin Kennedy.

Judy scrambles to come up with cool boy things for Jackson and this bag is one of her best.  After embroidering luggage for the girls, Judy embroidered is bag for her little guy. Continue reading

Therapy Thoughts–Maxine’s story

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Yesterday, I met a dear lady–correction: a dear lady met me, and everyone else, in the therapy gym.  I was flat on the bed/platform with my brand new knee being bent to an almost excruciating degree by Susan,  my wicked and wonderful physical therapist.  Maxine’s  motorized wheelchair came to a screeching halt, just short of knocking Susan off her stool.  Maxine’s unique costume and sunny dialogue instantly brought to mind Minnie Pearl, the American country comedienne of  The Grand Ole Opry and Hee Haw fame.

It was flag day and I certainly didn’t need to check the calendar to see that. From head to toe, 75 year old Maxine was the personification of the Senior American Patriot Welcome Wagon Caller.  A tiered skirt in flag colors covered her ample bottom, red socks warmed her slippered feet and a white shirt displayed red, white and blue beads, a  few of which, she pointed out, were tiny flags.  The handknit white shawl wrapped over her shoulders was bedecked with no fewer than 15 patriotic pins featuring flags, eagles, USA, and more.

Like the maraschino cherry on top of a mouth watering sundae, the silver bun perched on top of her head was covered by  three knit headbands, red, white and blue, of course, carefully arranged in a stripe pattern.  Assembling and donning this ensemble obviously took some time, especially for a woman who is wheelchair bound. Continue reading

Embroidered Lace Bonnet

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This gorgeous piece of antique lace edging had languished in my stash/resource center for some time.   Only 21″ long,  its possible uses  were somewhat limited.  I had considered a yoke overlay, but rejected that idea.

 

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The mint organdy is the one in the middle. It is really a stronger color than it seems to be on this computer. It is available for $8 py….vintage Swiss organdy, 36″ wide.

 

After  finally deciding on a newborn horseshoe bonnet (so named for the shape of the back crown), I realized that there was not enough lace for the crown lining, a necessary component to cover the gathered back edge of the bonnet.

Meanwhile, like a fine wine, the vintage mint green Swiss organdy (available  at the Janice Ferguson Sews “store”) had been aging in the sewing room armoire, in the same era as the lace.  I took it as a sign.    Lining the bonnet with a colored fabric would show off the lovely pattern of the lace while also making up for my short yardage. Continue reading

Thoughts from therapy…

Dear Friends,

I’m at the rehab facility, checked in by admissions, checked out by physical therapy and settled into my private room.   After  my first knee surgery,   rehab had me paired with a delightful,  interesting  80 year-old roommate and we talked most of the time we were not in therapy.  I do miss the sweet company of Miss Betty, but the new policy of private rooms for all ortho patients will leave me, I hope, with time to write some blogs, do some smocking and read some good books.

According to my surgeon, the knee replacement was routine and “almost boring,” which is good from his perspective. As I raised my eyebrows at this comment, he reminded me that no patient wants her surgery to stand out in the doctor’s memory. Of course, as the person whose leg was at the other end of the bone saw, I would have to say that this particular  surgery is quite memorable.

I have met some lovely people,  each with an interesting personality and personal story.  One such person is Carole, a very caring, dedicated hospital nurse.  I brought all my own pillows, with embroidered pima cotton pillowcases so they could be easily identified as mine.  Carole, probably around 55 years old,  commented that she too had a sewing/embroidery machine but she was going to sell it.  She had never gone for the lessons and had never sewn a seam, nor stitched out  a single embroidery–she just didn’t have time.  Continue reading

Therapy Duds

The preparations for my upcoming knee replacement surgery remind me of packing to go to our cabin in the mountains of North Carolina. There are appointments for this and that, lab work, X-rays, haircut, which is scheduled for two days before surgery. It’s bad enough to look like you’re suffering from a bad case of the flu, but at least my hair will be clean and all the same color.

I’m busy preparing smocking and embroidery, lest my idle hands become the devil’s playground. Today, I suppose that old adage could only be caution against mindlessly surfing the net or playing endless games of computer solitaire. Heaven knows I won’t be playing poker in the lobby of the rehab center.

Like going to NC, the packing for this 3-week “getaway” requires some special clothing.

Two years ago, I had my right knee replaced. Given that this time I have the same orthopod, same hospital, same rehab facility, I pretty much know what to expect. And I expect pain, blood, sweat and a few tears. But I can handle that. I’m tough. Continue reading

Another Recycled Heirloom

 

Alastair, 13 months 2010

This Madeira appliquéd outfit, a gift for my son’s first birthday in 1975, is one of the first heirloom garments I had ever seen. Nilda, a dear friend of Cuban and Puerto Rican ancestry, had purchased it in Miami, where clothing of this sort was readily available.

I was instantly smitten by the classic design and detailed embroidery,  as well as the absence of Sesame Street characters. On either side of the tiny red teddy bears are clusters of greenery and French knot flowers. The collar is embellished with a row of red cross stitches. Side tabs allow for a custom fit.  It is just sweet as pie.

Ryan, 21 months, 1976

Ryan wore the suit at every appropriate occasion.  With his little white high top shoes, he was adorable. Nilda told me that all of her aunts spent their days embroidering similar clothing for the babies in their family. I desperately wanted a Cuban/Puerto Rican auntie for my son! Continue reading

Cupcakes and Nana Fun

This is CAKE! It is not burgers and fries as it appears. It is Suzanne Magic.

Now this is a modern project for an old fashioned Nana, who delights in her grandchildren.

Just last week, my friend Suzanne Sawko hosted a swim birthday party for Carter, 8, one of her four grandsons. When the boys got out of the pool, this is what she served–the sweetest burger basket that any boy ever had tasted.

Just before the party, she introduced me to two books that I think every creative Nana should have in her grandmother reference library. Hello, Cupcake! and What’s New, Cupcake?, will have you baking little goodies at the rate of  the Hostess Cupcake team. Continue reading

Apple of Oma’s Eye

 

Alastair, 14 months, with his personal pastry brush at the ready.

Alastair, 14 months, with his personal pastry brush at the ready.

 

When I first saw the machine embroidery design featuring a  rosy red apple with the text, “of Grandma’s eye,”  I thought it would be fun to stitch on an outfit for Alastair  in recognition of  his other grandmother’s love.

As one design in a newly released collection, it tempted me to buy on sight.   But then I realized that it was the idea that appealed to me as much as the design itself. And I could certainly reproduce a satisfactory facsimile of the design. So I did.

 

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Alastair’s paternal grandmother, “Oma,” adores him as much as I do. So I thought this little ready-to-wear set would give her an extra big smile the next time she sees him.

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Shower Curtain Monogram

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The talents of one who sews are always in  great demand.  Judy Day writes, “ This was done for my niece, Alison.  She rented an apartment that was in much need of  ‘fixing up.’  The owner gave her permission to re-do some things.

 

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She and her mom completely redid the bathroom, from painting to putting in new tile.  Staying with black, white and grays, Alison added the red flower picture to really make this bathroom pop.

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